Empathy: misconceptions and misuses in psychotherapy

Abstract

The frequent misconceptions and misuses of empathy that occur during psychotherapy are related to confusion about the definition of empathy, misunderstanding of the difference between the process of empathy and the therapist's response of being empathic, countertransference exploitation of empathy to act out the therapist's needs, the therapist's unawareness of the "layering" phenomenon, and overlooking the patient's level of self-other differentiation. These misuses result in the patient's feeling misunderstood and damaged, with a subsequent weakening of the therapeutic alliance and, at times, a breakdown in self-other differentiation. Once identified, misuses should be addressed and explored in psychotherapy to offset disruptions in treatment.