Can love last?: the fate of romance over time

Abstract

Common wisdom has it that love is fragile, but leading psychoanalyst Stephen A. Mitchell argues that romance doesn't actually diminish in long-term relationships-it becomes increasingly dangerous. What we regard as the transience of love is really risk management. Mitchell shows that love can endure, if only we become aware of our self-destructive efforts to protect ourselves from its risks. Those who read this book will love more wisely because of it.-Andrew Solomon, author of The Noonday Demon [A] work on romance that is rich and multi-layered.-Publishers Weekly Cheerful, open, and humane-you'd definitely have wanted him as your analyst.-Judith Shulevitz, The New York Times Book Review [T]houghtful, compassionate, and profoundly optimistic.-JoAnn Gutin, Salon.com