The "war" for boys: Hearing "real boys'" voices, healing their pain.

Abstract

Boys are in a crisis—boys in treatment and boys next door. Practitioners need to know more about research that helps to elucidate this crisis of boyhood as well as new clinical insights, derived from a modern rethinking of boyhood. The results of the Listening to Boys’ Voices project (see W. S. Pollack, 1999) are reviewed as a springboard for pragmatic suggestions for changes in clinical attitudes toward, and treatment of, boys and young men. Practitioners are also urged to help society stem the tide of pain that today’s boys must face in the midst of changing attitudes toward the normative journey toward masculinity.