Secure Versus Fragile High Self‐Esteem as a Predictor of Verbal Defensiveness: Converging Findings Across Three Different Markers

Michael H. Kernis, Chad E. Lakey, Whitney L. Heppner

Journal of Personality · 2008 · 196 citations · 82 references

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TL;DR

Many people verbally rationalize and distort self‑esteem threatening information. The study examined whether verbal defensiveness differs when high self‑esteem is secure versus fragile. Stable, non‑contingent high self‑esteem is associated with low verbal defensiveness, whereas unstable, contingent, or discrepant self‑esteem leads to higher defensiveness, indicating that secure high self‑esteem protects against such defensiveness.

Abstract

ABSTRACT Why is it that many individuals verbally rationalize and distort self‐esteem threatening information? We examined whether such verbal defensiveness ( Feldman Barrett, Williams, & Fong, 2002 ) differs as a function of whether individuals' high self‐esteem is secure or fragile. Our findings indicated that individuals whose self‐esteem was stable, not contingent, or congruent with high implicit self‐esteem exhibited especially low amounts of verbal defensiveness. In contrast, verbal defensiveness was considerably higher when individuals' high self‐esteem was unstable, contingent, or paired with discrepant low implicit self‐esteem. Discussion centers on why the possession of well‐anchored and secure high self‐esteem obviates defensiveness directed toward enhancing, maintaining, or bolstering feelings of self‐worth.

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